5 tips for remote sex

It sometimes happens that several kilometers separate us from our loved one. However, this does not necessarily mean that we must give up desire and pleasure. Thanks to technology, making love from a distance is possible. Here are some tips for getting started with screens.

Dare to sext

To increase desire, why not send text messages that are a bit suggestive? "I take my shower thinking of you …", "guess what I'm wearing right now" or emojis with a sexual connotation (yes, you know which ones we're talking about #aubergine # peach). Certainly, sextos will not replace a part of legs in the air but they will allow you to maintain the desire at a distance. Let your imagination run wild and show what you would like to do to your partner if you were by his side.

Schedule a "date" for sex

No question of being psycho-rigid and leaving spontaneity in the closet, but planning a sex session also increases the pressure. And share a moment of bonding without risking being disturbed in the middle dirty talk or naughty caress. Increase the tension at each appointment by maintaining the desire. It is also an opportunity to prepare and put on your most beautiful lingerie – or present yourself in Eve's outfit. Planning which is therefore not boring or anti-sex. On the contrary!

Send nudes

Before your "date" or in the middle of the day (for a surprise effect), send a nude to your sweetheart to make her languish. Play the subtlety with some mysterious shots as an appetizer. An open shirt that reveals your chest, a bare shoulder, a buttock … We don't reveal ourselves naked from the start. sexfieis to succeed in increasing desire in the other. And believe us, it should quickly heat up FaceTime in the evening.

Use your other senses

Since touching yourself is impossible, you therefore have to stimulate hearing and sight. On the phone, express yourself, talk about your desires. Without falling into the cliché of the "pink telephone", you can stimulate your partner thanks to the voice and the sounds: moans, breath …

Music has a strong aphrodisiac power. So you can gently raise the temperature with a hot playlist in the background.

Watching the other person on video call or via webcam is a bit like porn, only better. Sex at a distance is an opportunity to redouble your inventiveness. You can ask for things, imagine erotic scenarios, test positions, watch yourself masturbate, dare to strip-tease …

Test the remote control vibrators

Because you can't stop progress, technology has thought of long distance relationships. There are remote control sex toys. Thanks to the remote control via an app, you or your partner can control the intensity of the device and vibrate at the same time for simultaneous pleasure. You would be wrong to deprive yourself of it.

We-Vibe Sync – Double vibrator for couples games – 129 €

Wireless vibrating egg with remote control – Lemunu – 24.99 €

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by Marion Dos Santos Clara