Her couple becoming non-exclusive, this woman shares the lesson learned in her new life. Something she didn’t really expect…
What’s more inspiring than a first-hand account? Journalists and writers regularly share their experiences and the life lessons learned through their experiences. Paulette spoke of a message received by the man she was seeing and which changed her life. Megan, who is terminally ill with a rare cancer, shared what everyone should learn before they die. And Robyn, widowed at just 29, spoke of the complicated grief of a woman discovering her husband’s secrets.
In the HuffPostDesiree McCullough talks about his couple became non-exclusive. During the pandemic, they decided with her husband to put their religion aside and took the opportunity to discuss their problems, including sexual incompatibility. Her sensual awakening had made her realize she was bisexual. As for her husband, he discovered he was asexual. But she didn’t expect what happened next…
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The lesson learned from his non-exclusive relationship
Supported by her partner, Desiree, aged 40, then began to exchange with other people. And one relationship in particular changed his perception of things. Seeing the young woman’s age, 20, she immediately said to herself that she could be her daughter. Of Cuban origin, she quickly matched with this single woman from Iraq. Suspicious, she couldn’t help but consider their age difference as an obstacle but lived with her the “best video of your life”. However, she did not respond to his messages in the following days and his reluctance grew stronger. Although they explained and stayed in touch for a while, it didn’t work out between them.
However, Desiree learned a valuable lesson: she ceased to be a “age snob”. She explains: “II want to allow myself to be surprised by the depth of someone’s story and their ability to empathize, regardless of their year of birth”. She now wishes to give people the time and opportunity to “reveal their authentic identity”, whether it’s a date, a professional exchange or a relationship between neighbors. As she gets older, she gets better at determining who deserves her time and who doesn’t, but first she has to let them in.
On dating sites and applications, she is no longer limited by filters and criteria, she now meets “individuals of varying ages and experience who bring out a delicious paradox: you are so different from me, and yet so similar”.
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