Ghosting to end a relationship isn’t always the smoothest method. Here’s a much more benevolent approach to breaking up: caspering.
It is not Ambre Dol (Large Families) who is going to tell us the opposite, whether a relationship has lasted a long time or not, it is not always easy to announce a break-up. Bad experiences can be had through dating apps. It may happen that after several days or weeks of discussions, you finally do not feel the chemistry with your interlocutor. The technique generally applied is “ghosting”. It simply consists of disappearing from the radar and not giving any news at all. This sudden disappearance is not without consequences. Indeed, the “ghosted” person may feel unwell in the face of this situation and develop problems such as stress or loss of self-confidence.
Fortunately, new benevolent practices are emerging. This is the case of “caspering” or Bae-realing. The first, named after pop culture’s nicest ghost, is the technique of simply being honest. If this behavior seems normal, theInternational Business Times wanted to put a word on the practice in 2018 by realizing that 80% of millennials resorted to “ghosting”, this terrible way of ending a discussion.
Caspering for a breakup: a benevolent technique
To support his remarks, the media interviewed Alix Fox, an expert in sex education. Words are important and according to her this simple word could: make people more concerned about behaving well towards others, but also towards themselves, helping them navigate the modern dating process more joyfully, and ultimately enjoy happier experiences.” Benevolence is the key, and still according to the specialist: “A breakup SMS can be accompanied by compliments or constructive comments, to avoid destroying any self-confidence”. There is therefore a solution to avoid “ghosting” , caspering.