Feeling trapped, a young woman preferred to break up with her boyfriend after he organized a surprise wedding. A highly narrated story.
For a surprise, it was a surprise… A young woman thought of going to dinner with her husband, she finally went to her wedding. And that was not to the liking of the lucky girl. Because things don’t always go as planned on D-Day or after the celebrations, and it can sometimes go wrong.
For example, a father accidentally donated his daughter’s wedding dress. A family got angry with the bride and groom who refused a rather special request. A friend cut ties with a bride who scammed her guests. Uniting with your other half can be a source of stress and the choices made by lovers are not always accepted by those around you. For this Internet user, the problem is thatshe could not make any choice for her marriage, since she was not even consulted…A story told about Reddit.
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A woman felt trapped by a surprise wedding
On the IATA forum, the 30-year-old explained that she had been in a relationship with Mark for five years. If she was not against the idea of marrying him, they had never spoken of their union. While she thought she was going on a date, she was surprised by a lot of applause when she entered the room. Shocked and upset, she felt overwhelmed by conflicting emotions. “I love Mark and I had dreamed of our future together“but getting married without any prior discussion or consent seemed to him to be”a breach of trust“, she explains.
Showing disagreement to Mark, she told him she wished she could have helped plan his wedding. But her boyfriend reacted badly and rejected her. It was the last straw for her. Today, she has a strained relationship with Mark but also their respective families and some of their friends, who believe that she overreacted by spoiling a beautiful moment. Many would have advised her to get married and arrange a legal ceremony later. It asks for an impartial opinion from Internet users: do they also consider that it isa joint decision, with open communication and the sharing of everyone’s expectations ?
The opinions are final: they speak of an ambush, underline the fact that they were not even engaged, are surprised that no one has arrested Mark and prevented this waste of time and money… can read:You did the right thing”, “It’s not only not romantic at all but it’s emotionally manipulative.”“If he apologizes and wants to plan a wedding together, then you have a great guy. If he gets all weird and/or angry about it, you’ve had a narrow escape.”.
However, some comments question the veracity of such a story. They are surprised that no one sided with her or that he was able to get a license without her. A business that makes people talk…
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