Prostate play
This sex trend promises G-spot orgasms for couples
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We all want our partner to climax during sex. The prostate play trend is intended to guarantee exactly that! How this works and what you should keep in mind.
The most important thing in advance: There should always be a familiar atmosphere during sex and both should be okay with trying new things. Once that’s clarified, this trend could significantly improve your sex life – because it’s supposed to make G-spot-like orgasms accessible to men.
G-spot in women and men
The lips, the neck, the nipples – there are erogenous zones that are gender-independent. And then there are also those that particularly appeal to women, such as the so-called G-spot on the front inside of the vagina. But what many people don’t know: men also have a G-spot – namely on their prostate.
Where is the prostate?
Among other things, the prostate is there to produce seminal fluid, which then transports the sperm. It lies below the urinary bladder on the pelvic floor, just in front of the rectum. In the prostate play sex trend, this point is touched intensively so that the partner experiences an explosive orgasm. There are different options for the type of touch.
Prostate play: 3 variants
You can integrate the sex trend into your love life in different ways. Because the prostate can be damaged from the inside, from the outside or through a sexualToys can be stimulated:
- From the inside: The erogenous zone is hit very precisely when the massage is carried out internally. To do this, a finger is inserted a few centimeters into the anus so that the prostate can be massaged directly. It should feel like a knot.
- With sex toys: Instead of your finger, you can of course also use sex toys, such as an anal vibrator, and use them to stimulate the prostate.
- From the outside: Or you would rather stay outside the anus – no problem at all. According to the trend, a massage between the anus and testicles is also extremely nice and satisfying for him.
By the way: If there is any reluctance to let another person insert something into the anus, the prostate massage can also be carried out by the partner themselves. This way he can find out on his own whether he actually likes the touch.
What else needs to be taken into account?
Before you want to try out the sex trend, there are a few important things you should know and consider. As written at the beginning: the most important thing is that you both want it. Especially if you want to insert your finger or sex toys into the anus, you should also ensure adequate hygiene – both in the anus and on your hands and the toy. You can also use a condom or disposable gloves for this. If the bare finger is inserted, care should be taken to ensure that the fingernails are short to avoid injuries. And no matter which variant you choose, use enough lubricant.
This sex trend means nothing stands in the way of an orgasm! If the climax is triggered via the prostate, it is experienced more intensely and for longer – and can occur several times in a row.
Sources used: healthline.com, vice.com