Relationship frustration
This is how women have recognized that their partner does not respect them
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There are moments when you realize: Your partner just doesn’t mean well with me. On Twitter, women have shared the most incredible stories.
Those damn rose-colored glasses … Unfortunately, despite the warning signs, they ensure that we plunge into relationships that – viewed soberly – would never work.
Often there have long been warning signs that the partner may not mean it to us as well as we think. We just don’t want to see these red flags in the hormonal frenzy and through our rose-colored glasses. The bad thing: this has happened to almost all of us and we have wholeheartedly accepted someone who not only does not love us – but does not even treat us with basic respect.
This is how women have recognized that their partner does not respect them
A discussion on the subject has now broken out on Twitter. One user called for sharing stories about relationships that you initially thought would be loved, but at a certain point you had to realize: My partner just hates me. About this point, the one experience, asked the author.
The post garnered almost 30,000 likes, was shared almost 40,000 times and received around 4,000 replies. The discussion was an opportunity for those affected to exchange experiences and humiliations in couple relationships. Because this is about much more than just common partners: inside – many stories tell about Breaches of trust, manipulation and, ultimately, highly toxic behavioral patterns. Here are the most incredible posts:
This is how women have recognized that their partner no longer respects them
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“My ex ate nuts and kissed me right after to see what happened. I’m very allergic to nuts.”
2 of 10
“My ex got pissed off while I was in labor. He said I should stop literally screaming for attention.”
3 of 10
“In an argument, he told me that he was well brought up and knew how to treat women. I was just not worth the effort.”
4 of 10
“When I had a bad car accident, he preferred to go to the football stadium instead of to my hospital.”
5 out of 10
“My friend asked me to organize his birthday party for him. I wasn’t allowed to come.”
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“We went to the cinema with friends, the film was sad and I had to cry. He said seriously to them: ‘She always does that when she wants attention.'”
7 of 10
“After six years together, I sometimes jokingly asked where my ring was. One day he looked me in the eye and said: ‘I won’t marry you.'”
8 of 10
“When he told me I wasn’t that ugly anymore. He used to think I was a lot uglier.”
9 of 10
“When I had a panic attack, he said, ‘Ok, when you’re done with this, just let me know.'”
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“He spent Valentine’s Day with his best friend. When he got home, he put a Polaroid picture of the two of them and a red plastic rose that she apparently had given him shortly before with the family pictures.”
We hope that the authors have now separated from their disrespectful partners and have been able to get over the bad experiences. Nobody deserves such relationships. The articles were originally published in English – we have translated them into German for you.