One look is worth a thousand words? Maybe so, but these 5 sentences will tell you whether you are really a happy couple! How often do you say the following sentences to each other? It says a lot about your relationship.
Do happy couples talk differently to each other than unhappy couples? Naturally. And can you really tell from pronounced sentences how well a relationship is going? Certainly.
Anyone who thinks of “I miss you”, “I’ll be happy to do that for you” or “I forgive you” has already visited the wrong Track. Instead, these five sentences are signs of happy couples:
1. “I don’t want that. Instead, I’d rather …”
Saying what you want and don’t want is one of the most important things in a working relationship. So honesty should be at the top of your list. But this also includes not being afraid to say what you think, feel, want. It should be possible for you to express your wishes and preferences without the: the other gasping for breath, just because it doesn’t go as he: she might have expected.
If you find it difficult and the: the other: n simply don’t want to disappoint, you should make an alternative suggestion after each “I don’t want to”. So you skip the disagreement and deal immediately with the solution or compromise.
2. “I’m serious now.”
Humor is an important component in a relationship. Laughing at yourself, the other person or yourself as a couple can lift the mood, weld them together and loosen up stressful situations. But jokes alone do not make a successful partnership. You have to be able to speak seriously to each other about certain things, call them by name and discuss them in detail.
If everything is taken for granted – including important topics – the other person can quickly feel as if the topic (or even the partner: in) is not being taken for granted. This, in turn, can quickly lead to frustration and arguments – and, as is well known, fun can sometimes become (unwanted) serious …
3. “Get dressed – we’ll do something together now!”
The longer you are together, the more often you fall into the void plans trap. These are the plans that one intends to do with each other – be it a weekend trip (“Sometime in summer”), a visit to the cinema (“We can see what’s going on”) or a visit to a restaurant (“There has a New store opened. Can we try it out soon … “).
It’s just stupid that such roughly thought-out plans are only implemented in the rarest of cases. This is not (only) due to one’s own laziness or that of the other person, but is often due solely to the fact that those plans are forged vaguely.
It is better to make clear announcements. This does not mean that you should order your: n partner: around. But an “On Thursday at 8 p.m. is running in our cinema The Grinch. Should I already buy tickets for us? “Exudes more commitment than a” could “,” would “,” maybe “,” someday “and” take a look. “
4. “Together we can do it.”
It is the sentence of all sentences that melts not only women’s but also men’s hearts: “We can do it!” Okay, it admittedly sounds a bit like Angela Merkel. But in essence, that’s what everyone wants to hear from us when they are in a crisis: that everything will be fine. That you don’t have to worry. That you don’t have to fight the problem alone. It’s about a strong “we”, about that “together.” Free from the motto “A sorrow shared is a sorrow halved” one can rely on: the partner: in and on his: their support.
Anyone who has not only heard this sentence from their counterpart, but has also said it one or the other time, can consider themselves lucky. In a world in which everyone seems to be fighting for themselves, this support is no longer a matter of course. Cheers to all “we can do it” couples!
5. “You are to me …”
… solid as a rock? … the best that has ever happened to me? … the man: the woman with whom I would like to grow old? However you would like to complete this sentence: It touches your: n partner: in often more than an “I love you”.
Individual sentences create an individual connection. It’s not about kitsch, but about closeness, trust, shared memories. A “For me you are the first aid pillow that I need” – for example in relation to the last evening party together, when the high heels gave up the ghost and that: the loved one caught you – makes shared experiences immortal . And last but not least, it strengthens the intimate togetherness …