According to psychology, certain words make it difficult to appear classy. This is the case for some expressions. Discover these words that can be problematic!
We sometimes try to appear more chic by using special vocabulary. However, this is not necessarily a very good idea. When you want to be classy, we end up coming across as someone who is pretentious. How to sort things out? According to psychology, certain words should be avoided if you want to maintain a sophisticated aura without overdoing it. And there’s nothing better than staying authentic. The most classic faux pas in the world of classroom conversation is the excessive use of the word “as”. Overusing this filler word can make you appear insecure and less confident, traits that definitely don’t fit the sophisticated image that you are aiming for.
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Secondly, the expression “In fact” is all also problematic. Using the word in this way can make others feel demeaned or disrespected, which is completely contrary to the impression of class that we often want to give. Instead of interrupting the conversation with an “actually”, it is rather better to take a break. This small change can significantly improve interactions and maintain a more sophisticated image in social settings.
Expressions that are problematic
Word “literally” has been so widely used that its original meaning is often lost. What was once used to emphasize a factual statement is now used casually to describe situations. According to a study, this word has been used so much indiscriminately that it is now evolving into a completely different meaning. Instead, consider replacing it with more specific language or allowing your statement to stand on its own.
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The expression “never mind” often helps to end a conversation. It thus indicates disinterest or indifference. However, you should know that communication is, ultimately, a question of understanding. By using this “whatever”, we send the message that we do not care enough about conversion. And this can contribute to offending the person you are talking to. Another expression can be negative. It is : “I guess”. Ultimately, it can subtly undermine your authority and credibility. She demonstrates a lack of confidence and qualities that are not associated with an elegant personality.
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Other words to remove from your vocabulary
According to psychology, the word “just” tends to be used by women more than men in the professional environment. And this can harm their authority. Although the word “fair” may seem innocuous, it can have a big impact on how your statements are perceived by others. It is more interesting to say “I think that…” or “I just think that…”.
Finally, you should avoid completely apologizing by saying the word “Sorry”. This can make you seem less confident and less authoritarian. When you feel the need to apologize for something, pause and reconsider the situation. This will allow you to reflect and analyze your words. As a reminder, shocking vocabulary requires, above all, subtlety. So be careful with what you say and you will succeed!
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