Say "yes" to the wrong person? Can happen! How it feels when you are aware of it, have shared with "Whisper" numerous victims.
The divorce numbers (or that there are divorces at all) suggest that people occasionally marry the wrong person. Perhaps it was still the right one at the time of the wedding, but apparently not for life, but only for a certain period. At "Whisper", numerous married couples shared what their knowledge of having the wrong person by their side does to them and how they got it. Will you take the consequence of getting a divorce? We will probably never know …
12 Married people tell: This is what it feels like to be married to the wrong person
1. When first love just won't let you go …
"I'm married, but I still love the man I lost my virginity to 12 years ago. He text me every now and then to keep in touch. I think I married the wrong person."
2. When the similarities become less and less …
"Sometimes I think I married the wrong person. I don't hate them, but the longer we are together, the less we bond. And we haven't had sex in two months."
3. If you have more ties to your affair than to your husband …
"I'm afraid I married the wrong person. I have a lover and we fit together on so many more levels than my husband and I."
4. If impatience drives you into misery …
"I'm sorry I married the wrong person, but I was tired of waiting."
5. If your buddy understands you better than your husband …
"I think I married the wrong person. And it doesn't help that my buddy treats me much better than my husband."
6. When doubts plague you …
"I think I married the wrong person. It makes me really messed up because he means a lot to me, but I just don't know if I love him with all my heart."
7. If your partner doesn't like your dog …
"I knew I married the wrong person when they said, 'If you bring a pit bull into MY house, I'll take him straight back to the shelter' – and meant it!"
8. If he doesn't care about your passions …
"Sometimes I think I've married the wrong man. He has absolutely no interest in the things I love, and now he's telling me he never wants to go abroad."
9. If you missed an opportunity …
"I sometimes feel like I married the wrong person and never gave the right one a fair chance."
10. When a bad decision turns into something good …
"Maybe I screwed up, maybe I married the wrong person – but I can't give up or say that I regret it because I don't regret our daughter came out of it. She means the world to me. I just wish my husband would do more for our marriage. "
11. If you suddenly have a bad feeling …
"We haven't even been married for half a year, but I already have the feeling that I chose the wrong one."
12. If you're just bored …
"My wife seems so boring to me now. Somehow I'm afraid I married the wrong one."