Sometimes fatigue is a brake on our sexual desires. How to have fun in bed despite fatigue? Our 3 sexy tips.
Sexual desire can vary depending on many factors. Work, stress, children, moods… All kinds of things can influence your desires. Sometimes it happens that the urge is not met simply because of fatigue. In these cases, do not force yourself! However, if you want to make love but you do not take action because of this fatigue, it is rather a shame … You want to brave the urge to sleep to have a good time with your partner ? You just need to follow a few easy tips to have a blast in bed even if you are tired.
No need to string together tedious positions and go through the entire Kamasutra to have fun with your partner. Indeed, making love is not making a performance or showing one’s abilities, but rather a moment of sharing between consenting people. It is an intimate parenthesis where the partners reveal themselves. Here are 3 tips to have fun and enjoy this moment, even if you are tired.
1 / Carry out “easy” sexual positions
Sex is not just about an act of penetration: it is above all a moment of shared intimacy. If you are tired and want to have sex, there is no need to force yourself into complicated and physical positions. A simple missionary or a double masturbation can allow you to enjoy the moment, and to have pleasure, without (too) tiring you.
2 / Take advantage of the day to make love
Making love doesn’t have to be an evening or a nighttime activity. Indeed, if you are tired in the evening, do not hesitate to create moments of intimacy in the middle of the day, either when you are not working or on weekends. Thus, you will be in better shape physically and mentally to make love.
3 / try slow sex
Slow sex can be an option to have sex even if you are tired. Why ? This way of making love has several advantages. Just like the other “slow” trends (“slow life”, “slow tourism”), slow sex consists of slowing down the pace. It’s about taking your time to enjoy the other and the present moment.
In their book Slow sex, loving yourself with full awareness, Anne and Jean-François Descombes give the definition of slow sex: “It is making love while being attentive to what is happening in ourselves, to listen to what we feel in our body”. Take the time to massage yourself, to caress yourself to increase the excitement. Ready to test?