Anal sex? Is it really nicer around the back? We have arguments for and against – and the best tips for your "first time".
Sex through the back door? For many women this is not a great idea – and yet many are fascinated by it. There are a number of myths surrounding the topic of anal sex, and many of us are unsettled by questions like these: Does not that hurt? Does feces stick to the penis afterwards? What about the hygiene? Do you even get an orgasm? We open the debate with two arguments.
Anal sex? To let!
"Oops, I probably slipped" is an often heard excuse for the painful intrusion south of the intended location. It may well be that the attraction of the forbidden awakens the desire for anal. That women who do it are bold and daring. That nothing cracks or bleeds after good preparation. But: Dirty is not the same quality and stretching exercises belong in the gym. Why torment yourself with what is off the beaten track, where the good is so close. My bum is sacred to me, the fun zone is further ahead.
Anal sex? Do!
Have you ever driven the wrong way round at full throttle into a one-way street? First terrified and then enjoyed the kick of the forbidden? This is something like anal sex. In the head first uh, possibly painful, in any case only something for porn actresses. And in practice it is actually quite exciting, with good preparation absolutely painless and particularly intimate. And why should one simply ignore an erogenous zone and punish it with contempt? Discover the possibilities of anal intercourse! Millions of gays can't be wrong.
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Do you want to try it?
According to a survey by the magazine "Neon", 57 percent of women have already done anal. Nothing can go wrong with our five golden rules – and who knows, maybe after your "first time" you will be totally amazed at how good anal intercourse can actually be – and you will become real lovers of "alternative" intercourse.
The 5 golden rules for anal sex
- TALK ABOUT IT! Before you dare to experiment with anal intercourse, you should talk to your partner. Going spontaneously through the back door is not a good idea – especially if you haven't had much experience with anal sex. Above all, it is not possible for HE to change the front door without asking! For example, speak ahead of time beyond your expectations and what doesn’t work for you.
- PREPARATION IS EVERYTHING: Unlike vaginal intercourse, anal sex takes a little planning. First of all, you should take a long shower so that you feel really clean. Then going to the toilet is practically compulsory – otherwise it can be very uncomfortable for you. Some also prefer an intestinal irrigation to make the rectum really "chic" – but of course this is not a must. Usually the rectum is quite clean when it's empty and you don't have to worry about feces sticking to your penis after sex. If you still have inhibitions, take it condom (Which you should ALWAYS do in case of doubt, because diseases can also be transmitted through anal sex!) Definitely have lubricant lying on the bedside table – after all, the anus does not produce its own lubricant. Good idea: To relax, you can also take a bath together beforehand, for example with soothing music and essential oils.
- ALWAYS SLOW! Now don't rush anything. The lubricant is ready? Then the first thing to do is to stretch the anus. And carefully. Your partner can use his fingers, his tongue, but also Sex toys to take. Particularly circular movements around the anus provide excitement. The penetration should be done slowly – it is best to choose a position in which you can control the depth yourself, such as the riding position. Feel your way slowly, as far as it feels good to you.
- TAKE CARE OF HYGIENE: An absolute no-go: First stimulate the anus with the penis and then switch to the vagina. Because this allows intestinal germs to get into the vagina – and lead to infections. But what is very exciting: When your partner first stimulates the clitoris with his hand and later devotes himself to the anus. Increases the likelihood of orgasm (yes, you can also have anal sex!)
- GIVE FEEDBACK: Butt sex, orgasm, done? No! Especially if you have had sex through the back door for the first time, you should talk about what you liked and what can be done better next time. You will see: with a little practice, anal intercourse will soon be no experiment, but a real alternative for you.
By the way, even Hollywood star Gwyneth Paltrow gives tips for fun through the back door. On her website she presents the psychologist Dr. Paul Joannidis some interesting questions:
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