In the case of a separation, parents are usually very busy with themselves, but the victims of a divorce are usually the children. They feel that the parents are not doing very well and do not know how to deal with this situation. After all, they love mom and dad and don't want to be put in the predicament of having to choose one of the two.
What parents should really pay attention to when separating
For Billy Flynn from Boston in the United States, it was primarily important after the separation from his wife that his two sons still learn what constitutes a loving relationship.
Ultimately, the parents should be a role model for their little one and Billy really took that to heart. He writes a touching post on Facebook, for which the divorced dad is celebrated and supported online.
These words go straight to the heart
"Today is my ex-wife's birthday, so I got up early, brought her flowers, a card, and a gift and helped the kids make their breakfast. As so often, I was asked why the hell am I still I’m doing so much for them. It’s getting on my nerves, so I’ll make one thing clear here: I’m raising two little men. The way I treat your mother will be a defining example of how you see and treat other women and influence your idea of relationships. Especially in my case, I think because we are divorced.
So if you are not a good role model for your children in how to behave in a relationship, pull yourself together. Jump over your shadow and lead by example. The whole thing is more important than your offended ego!
Raise your boys to good men. The girls become strong women. The world needs it more than ever. "