To help take stock of a relationship, a psychologist shares 5 signs that show someone is the one for you. Here they are.
Love, love, love… He inspires artists for their poems and songs (like Slimane who will represent France at Eurovision 2024 with his title My love). But it can also be a source of questions. If one sign will be particularly lucky in the field this month of November, others face jealousy, particularly towards their partner’s friend.
Doctissimo questioned a psychologist on the signs that show that the other person is made for you. Five ways to find the ideal partner or to remove the doubts that remain in your relationship. According to Siyana Mincheva, the first concerns the feeling of peace and security that we experience with our other half. She recommends looking for what you feel: “If we feel at peace and safe, with a person in front of us who listens to us, understands us, it is a positive sign.“. She continues: “We feel understood, and with this feeling develops the feeling of self-confidence as well as a healthy mode of communication with our partner.“.
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Positive signs that he’s the one for you
The second sign that Siyana Mincheva mentions is the feeling of being yourself : “You can talk about certain subjects without shame, you maintain a healthy relationship with listening and kindness”. The therapist summarizes: “You feel heard, and this reinforces the feeling of being yourself in front of others“.
The third sign is open-mindedness from her lover: “If the person has an open mind, can think about other ideas and other experiences, this indicates that they have begun a process of welcoming and accepting you.”. She is therefore able to accept your proposals and to be caring and tolerant.
The fourth sign is respectat the basis of any relationship, which allows us to consider building something: “Where there is respect, there is love”. When your limits, your tastes, your opinion and your way of being are respected, that’s a good starting point.
And to finish, the fifth sign that a person is right for you is the absence of materialism At her place. “Materialistic people often use competition or manipulation to achieve their goals.“. Clues to guide lovebirds in search of answers.
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