It’s an incredible story… A man indulged in confidences in Dear Deidre, the “heartfelt” section of the Sun. His partner is pregnant while he had a vasectomy in the past and she is unaware.
A 44-year-old man recently confided in Dear Deidresection “love letter” from Sun. He is faced with a very particular situation. While he recently underwent a vasectomy, his 43-year-old girlfriend is believed to be three months pregnant. According to his confidences, he affirms that she has “no idea” that he is not the father but he probably forgets that the procedure not always 100% effective as the person in charge of the section actually recalled.
The man returned to his meeting with his companion. “When we met I was separated, with three children. My partner said she didn’t want children and because of her age thought it was too late anyway. I didn’t mention vastectomy because it didn’t seem important or relevant. And the more time that passed, the harder it was to tell him.”he confided.
The latter also explained that she is no longer as close to him as before but that she seems to have become closer to him for some time. “For about a month, our relationship is getting better and better. We even talked about marriage. When she told me she was pregnant I was shocked and couldn’t speak. I pretended to be happy for her but I’m going crazy. She now thinks it’s fate, and she’s very excited to be a mother.”he revealed, genuinely upset.
Perform a DNA test
From now on, he is apprehensive about confessing his vasectomy to his partner. “If I tell her about the vasectomy, she’s going to be angry and hurt that I hid it from her. And worse, I would have to confront her about her secret lover(s). […] Her pregnancy is considered high risk because of her age, so I don’t want to upset her. The truth is, I haven’t been a saint in the past either, but I love her and I can’t lose her. I’m sure I could love this baby like he was mine. Many children are raising other people’s children. Should I say something or is it better for everyone to keep quiet?”he asked.
The person in charge of the section recommended to him to perform a DNA test. Indeed, only a test will remove the doubt about his paternity… “A big confrontation is not necessary. You can just explain that you’re confused by the news because you had a vasectomy.” can we read. A story that has touched internet users…