Multiple orgasms? Sounds almost too good to be true! We clarify here what the multiple climax is all about and how you experience one.
It's hard to get enough of beautiful things! No wonder the term multiple orgasms is a trigger word for many. But what does that mean? Are multiple orgasms really that great and desirable? And if yes: How do you get to enjoy it? We'll tell you.
Multiple orgasms: what is it?
Multiple orgasms are, as the name suggests, several highlights in a row. Whether during sex with a partner, during masturbation or any other activity that can lead to orgasm (some exercise should work wonders for some women …). Usually you can only women Enjoy multiple orgasms (the emphasis is on being able to!). Since men usually ejaculate when they reach climax, they need a short break afterwards in order to "collect themselves" physically (on average this break should be about 30 minutes). However, if ejaculation does not occur, which is possible in rare cases, men are theoretically also able to experience multiple orgasms.
Multiple orgasms: how is that possible?
The bottom line to having multiple orgasms is we continue immediately after the climax. Pleasure and arousal must be kept at a consistently high level as far as possible. Sounds difficult? It is, at least for some women!
The thing is that: No two orgasms are alike! We all live and experience sex, lust and sexual climaxes in a very individual way. Our bodies are different, we are in different life situations, we have unique experiences and emotions. All of this and more leads to the fact that we B. during sexual intercourse have different needs, perceptions and sensations. Sometimes women are classified into two types of orgasms:
- Peak type: The climax occurs relatively suddenly, lasts only for a short time, but is perceived as very violent. Then the excitement quickly drops, you feel relieved and liberated and don't feel like any more action (all the more for cuddling!). For the peak type, having multiple orgasms is difficult to impossible.
- Plateau type: The climax builds up slowly and it's hard to say when exactly it starts and how long it will last. The excitement remains at a high level for a longer period of time, seems to be wavelike, sometimes a little weaker and then stronger again. With the plateau type, the prerequisites for a multiple orgasm are excellent.
The question is whether every woman can be assigned to exactly one of these types, or whether it does not depend more on the specific sexual experience into which category we fit with our respective orgasm. In any case, there seem to be roughly these two ways women experience orgasms, and obvious is that The chance of a multiple climax in a plateau orgasm is particularly great.
Multiple Orgasms: The Best Tips
In a study commissioned by the online portal "OMGYes" a few years ago, a good 1,000 women were asked about multiple orgasms – proud 47 percent said they had experienced multiple orgasms before! The multiple climax doesn't even seem that unusual …
The majority of those who had experience with multiple orgasms reported that they continued differently after the first pleasure summit, e.g. B. has changed to another position. The best tips from the experts questioned on how you can / can proceed so that you experience multiple orgasms during sex are accordingly:
- Change pace: If you don't want to stay with an orgasm, you can try to continue a little slower after your first peak, something like the end of foreplay. Quieter, more tender movements keep you going, but also signal your body: It's about to start (again)!
- Change position: Different sex positions usually stimulate different erogenous zones with different intensities and sometimes trigger quite different orgasms. If you happen to have a partner with intergalactic stamina, you could, for example, switch from a very intimate position like a blooming orchid to the elephant position and then to doggy style. If, on the other hand, you only have an average dream man in bed, he can first satisfy you orally and with the hand before you come to the final climax together.
- One erogenous zone at a time: In most women, the clitoris, G- or A-spot and Co. are initially "exhausted" after an orgasm, so it is always necessary to continue to stimulate the same point (s), absolutely counterproductive! It would be strategically better to concentrate on one spot (if possible) and to keep further erogenous zones open for the further course, i.e. H. to keep them as sensitive to stimuli as possible.
As you can see, unless you are self-gratifying, you are compelled to climax several times on the active and committed cooperation of your partner reliant …
Multiple orgasms: is it really necessary?
Admittedly: Experiencing several orgasms in a row sounds extremely irritable and worth striving for! To prolong this unique moment of devotion in such a way – who would say no to that? On the other hand, exactly the same applies as with squirting: Why should we put pressure on ourselves when we are completely happy and satisfied with our sex life and simple orgasms? Of course, experiments and variety in bed (or wherever you like to do it) are basically good and can be worthwhile – but only as long as we enjoy it and want to do it!
After all, not every sexual experience is equally beautiful for all of us anyway. What one likes can be totally uncomfortable for another. There are also different opinions about multiple orgasms. Some can peak z. B. enjoy it most when you experience it almost simultaneously with your sex partner – for you a multiple orgasm is therefore not exactly a great pleasure. Anyone who generally has orgasm problems should definitely not worry about any multiplication – zero times x is known to result in zero …
In other words: Nothing against curiosity and the joy of experimentation! The better we know our body and the richer our sexual experience, the better our chances of orgasm and pleasurable climaxes. But if you don't feel like changing position or tempo, or if you just stop after an orgasm, you haven't missed anything. At least not if she feels good and wants to do it again – not immediately, but definitely at some point …