Visualize two small spoons, lovingly nested one against the other in the kitchen drawer: hop, that’s it, you’ve understood everything about the position of the spoon, surely one of the most comfortable in the world. Kama Sutra.
3 useless knowledge (therefore essential):
- In the Kamasutra, the position of the spoon bears the number 99. No need to draw you a picture: the numbers themselves illustrate the technique!
- According to an American study published in April 2012, the position of the spoon would be the position the least appreciated by men, who are “only” 4% to plebiscite it. Not wild enough, perhaps? On the other hand, it is the preferred position of 21% of infidels In France…
- In 2015, archaeologists unearthed a tomb in the Peloponnese region of Greece. They discovered there the skeletons of a man and a woman, placed one behind the other, spooning for 6000 years. Historico-romantic-erotic.
WE love…
- Lazy people from France and Navarre, the spoon position is made for you! We lie down on the side, we settle down comfortably on a soft pillow and we let Chéri do all the work… Not very acrobatic, but downright suitable for a naughty lie-in and/or a villainous nap.
- Do you want to try your hand at dirty talk? In the position of the spoon, Chéri can quite whisper sweet words / insanities / SM scenarios in the hollow of the ear. Better: because he has his hands free, he can linger on your chest, your lips, your clitoris… In short, he’s the one in charge.
- Warning: if Chéri suffers from back pain, the spoon position should be avoided since it puts a lot of strain on his spine. On the other hand, it is “the” position for pregnant women, until the last month of pregnancy: maximum comfort. According to some specialists, it is also a recommended position in case ofurinary incontinence.
- Are you interested in anal sex? That’s good: the position of the spoons allows you to try your hand at painless anal sex and with tenderness…
The spoon position, easy and intense
The technique. We lie on the side, raising the upper knee to be very stable. Cheri presses against us, his (muscular) chest against our back, and passes his upper leg over our waist for deeper penetration. The movement is slow, we take advantage of it… Little tip: if you have long hair, remember to tie it up to avoid little pain.
Variants
The lying doggy style. Easy: just peel off Chéri’s torso so that only the pelvises are in contact. You can bend up to a right angle to form a kind of elongated doggy style… The penetration is super-deep, but you lose a bit of sensuality.
Face to face. Because that’s the big negative point of this ultra-romantic position: we can’t look at our partner. Fortunately, you can try the position of the spoon face-to-face: for this, you just have to pass your leg over the pelvis of the other… and to contract the abdominal belt. More sporty, certainly, but also more intense!
The accessory that goes with
G-Ring 2 in 1: finger vibrator and remote control45 € at Passage du Désir.
The position of the spoon is also a must to discover the couple masturbation. Chéri puts on the vibrating ring and just drags his fingers on the side of our clitoris… Guaranteed orgasm.
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