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Have you ever experienced passionate, fleeting and painful romantic relationships? Relationships that suddenly impose themselves on you, upset you and uplift you? Perhaps these are so-called karmic relationships. “Karmic” comes from “karma”, a term that reminds us that we lead multiple lives and that our current life is driven by our past lives. According to this central dogma of Hinduism and Buddhism, personal development comes down to “improving one’s karma”, that is to say to meeting oneself thanks to our past baggage.

Thus, as the numerologist Céline Colle, also author of ” All these lives where we loved each other “ (ed. Jouvence), a karmic relationship is a “A particularly strong relationship, often complicated, but which does not arise by chance”. Understand: if the love story is to be woven, then it is woven, for the simple reason that it has a role to play in our life. Thanks to it – and on condition that we learn from it all the “lessons” offered by the karmic relationship, we grow, we get to know ourselves and we very often make changes that are useful for our development. In short, a karmic relationship is like a springboard in terms of personal development: it invites us to meet. But you still have to recognize her when she knocks on the door.

How do you recognize a karmic relationship? The signs are unmistakable

We are not immune to karmic relationships even though some people never taste it. It’s a bit like the lottery. However, it often happens that karmic relationships are not identified as such! To identify this type of relationship, and without going into a narrow listing, Céline Colle reveals the signs of the karmic relationship: “The karmic relationship is passionate. The two partners do not need to talk to each other, they guess each other. They also feel like they’ve known each other forever. The connection is very powerful ” introduces the author. This notion of obviousness is therefore characteristic of karmic relationships, in particular because individuals have already dated, or crossed paths, in previous lives.

But we should not stick to the feeling of obviousness, at the risk of confusing the karmic link with soul mates. “Karmic love is love that we have already encountered. The two souls recognize each other and find themselves with the sole objective, discreet at the start, of getting closer to the being that they are deeply ”, explains Céline Colle. In short, in karmic love, we believe we are getting closer to a person but we are only getting closer to ourselves (and that’s not bad!). An essential point according to the author, which should be developed by bringing a major precision: when you meet your soul mate, you do not suffer, or not necessarily, while karmic links generate … grief. Difficulties, constant questioning and difficult separations are part of the process. An additional clue, then: when a relationship promises to be obvious, intense, but short and painful, there is a good chance that it is a karmic relationship.

Some will also talk about “Twin flames” that meet, but on this subject there are two schools: “We do not know today if the twin flames necessarily live karmic relationships when they meet, but they can suffer greatly”, explains Céline Colle. Likewise, we can have a karmic relationship with someone who is not our twin flame. This does not prevent an extreme connection! Simply, the karmic partner can be a twin flame in some cases, and not be a twin flame in the other.

A karmic relationship leads to suffering

If a karmic relationship chooses to shake up our daily life and overwhelms us with all kinds of emotions, it’s because it has a mission. She wants to open us to changes … and to ourselves, the changes being inclined to lead us to our inner being, precisely.

Personally, Céline Colle lived a karmic relationship, a relationship that inspired her to write the novel “ All those lives where we loved each other ”. The adventure turned out to be painful, but saving: the author and numerologist changed profession, region, habits. The need to start from scratch was felt, but it was above all the karmic relationship that spurred it on. This is why the karmic relationship involves its share of suffering in its course: because when everything is going too well, we stabilize ourselves, we settle in a zone of comfort and do not evolve. However, when life decides that it is time for us to evolve on the path of self-love, it “sends” us a karmic relationship or, in other cases, an upheaval of another kind ( illness, accident, burnout…).

The difficulties of the karmic relationship are a lesson

“The suffering comes from the fact that we question ourselves within the karmic relationship. For that, history raises obstacles. In my novel, for example, one of the two protagonists is already in a relationship, ”explains Céline Colle. Among the other sources of suffering, one can note, in the disorder, feelings of jealousy which parasitize the relation, toxic bonds, a war of ego, a geographical distance impossible to abolish, buried wounds which resurface … and, undeniably, a painful breakup. Because the karmic relationship passes through us like a messenger who does not intend to stay. Its purpose is simply to introduce us to a man or a woman who will come, through the karmic link, to “wake up” us and teach us essential things about ourselves. Often, the person in front is also turned upside down by the relationship, but it remains unclear whether the two karmic partners are the target of a questioning, or if one of the two plays the support for the other. “In the novel, the two characters are concerned even if the work appears more clearly in Valentine”, reveals Céline Colle to enlighten us.

In the karmic relationship, and because obstacles and difficulties arise, our heart and our head cry and bleed (our very soul!), Which naturally pushes us to question life, love, the meaning of all this: what am I ready to endure? Do I love myself enough to love someone? How far can I go for love? What am I afraid of? All the answers to these questions are enlightening and the very origin of the next personal turn that we will make.

Learn to bounce back from a karmic relationship and after a karmic relationship

“We will intervene in your lives only so that what must be lived is it, even if for that, you have to live painful events”, can we read in Céline Colle’s novel. A key phrase, since our karmic partner is not a stranger, but a soul already frequented in previous lives. Thus, to welcome a karmic relationship, one must be sensitive to this spiritual vision of existence: “We cannot believe in this type of love if we do not believe in previous lives and in this new incarnation”, explains Celine Colle.

In order to “benefit” from a karmic relationship, that is to say to derive from it all the personal benefits necessary for our construction and our alignment, it is therefore preferable to identify and accept the karmic relationship. This open-mindedness makes it possible to move forward, to bounce back, to give free rein to all the questioning offered by the karmic couple and therefore to initiate a real work on oneself. Conversely, a rational and Cartesian mind will tend to accuse frustration in love, enormous heartache and deep wounds.

So, to keep the best of it, let us let come the relationship, the difficulties, but above all listen to the lesson that karmic love reveals to us. Doubts, overflowing emotions and sleepless nights will sprinkle our thoughts and show us the way. A road that looks like us, that awaits us, and that would lack light if the karmic relationship had not been involved. Of course, and finally, Céline Colle recalls that it is futile to try at all costs to live this kind of relationship: “She appears if she should appear.” This does not prevent us from remaining attentive.

To learn more about karmic relationships and delve into one of them:

“All the lives in which we have loved each other”, by Céline Colle, Jouvence editions. Released on March 9, 2021.